Classic Books

Beatrix Potter books were loved in my house as a child, so I will read them to Ashley too. Half Price Books had a copy of Peter Rabbit for ninety-eight cents. I started reading it and it was surprisingly good. I had forgotten how much I enjoyed the lush, warm art; the lyrical writing. And I was shocked at the difference in quality between this book and most of the hand-me-down crap that has infiltrated our library.

Animator John K talks about design theory all the time. His blog is great, you should read it. In a post called "The Death of Form" he compares old toys with their post-1970 analogues. He concludes that modern toy makers "must hate kids. Either that or they are just plain retarded." My thoughts exactly.

I feel the same way about classic books (or just plain good ones) compared to the bulk of what's available today. One day when my wife is out of the house I'm going to fill up a garbage bag from our bookcase, and when she comes home there will be nothing but good stuff on the shelf!

Millions Without Hope

President Obama, elected to the presidency on a campaign based on reviving 'hope' and promising 'change', now presides over a nation with nearly 40 million hopeless citizens in poverty. Unless a significant 'change' occurs in the current faltering economy, millions more will fall into lives of destitution and despair by the end of 2009.
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In a nation founded on the revolutionary notion of 'life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness', America has never been able to successfully reconcile its core beliefs in individualism and self-reliance with social justice and egalitarianism. As a result, the world views the United States as an incomplete or deeply flawed experiment in democracy. Many wonder how a country, which claims to be the 'greatest nation on earth' on the basis of its constitutional system, can give tax breaks to its wealthiest people while continuing to allow 12-15% of its population to live off of food stamps and sleep in cardboard boxes on the street. Indeed, more Americans are becoming aware of the chasm between their laudable ideals and the realities of indigence.
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On several occasions in the 20th century, poverty in America was declared to be on the verge of extinction. At his nominating convention in Palo Alto, California in August, 1928, Herbert Hoover declared, 'Unemployment in the sense of distress is widely disappearing...We in America today are nearer to the final triumph over poverty than ever before in the history of any land. The poor house is vanishing from among us...'. His bold prediction lacked historical context. The 1920s was a decade of largely artificial or perhaps fleeting wealth-creation at best. It was simply another 'bubble' made through easy credit, installment plans and irrational optimism in the stock market. When the bubble burst a year later, the nation descended into a forlorn state as the percentage of unemployed surpassed 20%. Clearly, unregulated capitalism was not the panacea to solve the social ills of America.
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When Franklin D. Roosevelt delivered his famous second inaugural speech on 20 January 1937, he famously uttered, 'I see one-third of a nation ill-housed, ill-clad, ill-nourished'. Another line from the same historically notable speech 'I see millions of families trying to live on incomes so meager that the pall of family disaster hangs over them day by day' not only raised the issue of the working poor of his era but also would apply to the condition of tens of millions of Americans today. Despite more than four years of massive government spending and the creation of new social programs intended to raise the US out of the Great Depression, the economy and the plight of the average citizen remained quite precarious. If business could not guarantee prosperity for the entire nation, then neither could a rigid, centralized economic system.
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A quarter of a century passed, and the WWII generation elected one of its own to the highest office in the land in the person of John F. Kennedy. In his second year as president, a little-known intellectual published a book entitled The Other America: Poverty in The United States. His name was Michael Harrington (1928-89, pictured), and he was unusual in that his politics veered toward socialism. As is still the case, socialism was considered politically untenable and socially unacceptable in the US. Despite his non-mainstream political predilections, The Other America was read widely in circles of power and had a transformational effect on the 1960s. Harrington's reference to the poor as being 'invisible' in the public arena, a term Hilliary Clinton recently echoed in her recent campaign for the Democratic nomination, struck a chord with leaders from all walks of life.
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In his first State of the Union address (only two months after the tragic assassination of his predecessor) Lyndon Johnson, who had been influenced by Harrington's book, told the nation, 'This administration today, here and now, declares unconditional war on poverty in America.' Subsequent to that speech, LBJ successfully created several new governmental programs with the hope of lifting many struggling Americans out of poverty. Of all of his initiatives, which included Head Start, work-study and food stamps, Medicare and Medicaid proved to be the most vital and effective tools in reversing the numbers of the needy. The progress made was short-lived, however, due to the expenditures laid-out for the Vietnam war. As Washington became more and more preoccupied with communism and national security, the issue of poverty in America dropped out of civic discussion.
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Forty years after the Johnson presidency, the United States needs to confront the ravages and social complexities of poverty once again. Forty to fifty million people will go to sleep tonight without adequate shelter or food in the richest country in the world. How much longer will Americans tolerate this violation of 'life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness'? To become one prosperous nation, it will take a non-ideological commitment by business leaders, the government, community activists and volunteers to end the greatest scourge in history. Hence, if President Obama truly desires a legacy of greatness, he will need to 'change' poverty with more than the slogan of 'hope'.
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J Roquen

Galactus, devourer of lunch

image from Lunch Bag Art

Geekdad posted these illustrated lunch bags. Made by a dad (and, yes, geek, based on the subject matter) for his kids, during his own lunch breaks. What a guy. And how cool to have kids who share your interest in characters like Lupin III or Godzilla!

Looking through the history on Lunch Bag Art, it looks like he has stepped up his game as the site became more popular. Some of the older bags look like something I could draw in a few minutes, while the more recent masterpieces (like this one) look like they belong on canvas, not brown paper bags.

UNITED WE STAND

WE BELIEVE IN CHANGE....


Clarification


Brigitte, originally uploaded by cybermelli

Don't you just hate it when Bloggers write cryptic, one-line posts with no context? Sorry about that. At the end of a very full day, it just dawned on me that I have so much to be thankful for, and I wanted to share it with you, Internet. I love my family and I am excited about my life.

Our little girl is seven months old. She has six teeth. She can scoot backwards on her belly by planting her hands underneath her and pushing against the floor. She finds it hilarious that she can do this.

After a string of holidays and visits with friends, we finally had one weekend to stay at home by ourselves. Ashley appreciated it. Of course there's no rest for my wife and I, as we spent the whole time picking out vendors for our urban craft fair. This is our fourth year and it's going to be awesome!

The First Black President

Barack Obama is just a few hours from being sworn in as the first black President of the United States, and he is to be congratulated for his remarkable accomplishment.
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What, however, makes a person black, white or of mixed race? Considering President Obama was the product of a black father and a white mother, should he be classified as 'black' by his dark skin tone or perhaps 'mixed' due to his ancestry? Although the 'content of (his) character' ought to be the only factor in judging his capacity to lead the nation, questions on race will still have a profound effect on our lives and in our national history. Indeed, a case can be made that Warren Harding (1865-1923) became the nation's first black president in 1921.
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Born outside the small town of Marion, Ohio during the last year of the Civil War, Harding worked in the newspaper trade and became an influential newspaper publisher. His immersion into local and national issues vaulted him into the position of Lieutenant Governor and subsequently a seat in the US Senate in 1915.
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When Republican operatives failed to settle on a presidential candidate for the 1920 election, Harding earned the nomination in a compromise deal between political bosses. In a rather forgettable contest, Harding defeated the obscure and lackluster Democratic governor, James Cox, of his own state (Ohio) convincingly. Franklin D. Roosevelt, Cox' running-mate, would eclipse both men at the top of their respective tickets in a dozen years.
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Harding died only two years into his term, but it was not before presiding over several acts of malfeasance within his administration. While he likely had little knowledge of the misdeeds of his subordinates, Harding has been rated in the bottom tier of presidents for being unable or unwilling to manage the conduct of his cabinet officers. His two significant accomplishments, launching the Veterans Bureau and orchestrating the Washington Naval Conference of 1921-22, were overshadowed by sordid tales of governmental corruption. Aside from politics, his racial legacy is also back in question after years of dormancy.
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During his political campaigns, rumors and allegations surfaced that Harding was a descendant of at least one black ancestor. If proven true, it would have doomed Harding's career in a nation still prejudiced against blacks from Pensacola to Pittsburgh. Although denied strenuously by his backers, Harding likely had black lineage. Beyond his complexion being a dark hue, his father-in-law, one of the richest men in Marion, not only objected to the marriage between Harding and his daughter Florence on racial grounds but also openly used the pejorative word 'nigger' in reference to his son-in-law on occasion. In fact, his mixed blood was a familiar topic among many in the area and had been so for years.
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Was President Harding a descendant of a black woman - perhaps his great-grandmother? Between the circumstantial evidence and his unusual charcoal skin color, it is quite possible. Hence, Obama may be regarded as the second black president or the first black president with an asterisk behind his name. Whatever the case, Americans have progressed to a point where the measure of a man or a woman has little or nothing to do with genetics. For that reason, the United States can be rightfully proud of its election of Barack Obama today.
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J Roquen

Bedtime


Libba Gray, originally uploaded by ☆Oopsy★Daze☆

So tired. So happy.

Dance


, originally uploaded by goodlux

Our baby can't stand, but she has invented a dance. She sits and bops her head from side to side like an enthusiastic Sunshine Buddy. Just like the nodding, she flails her neck around so fast that it looks like she's going to hurt herself. Obviously, this cracks her up, because she has a giant smile on her face whenever she does it.

Head-bobbing is currently her favorite method of expressing happiness. She dances in response to music, or funny sounds, or spotting me across the room when I come home from work.

We wondered briefly if we should be concerned about this frantic head-thrashing, but we're not so worried that we don't actively encourage her to do it.

I Like to Score


Baguettes Taste-Off, originally uploaded by ComeUndone

Bread baking is the new baby making. In 2009, I am going to focus my attention on creating tasty biscuits, instead of sticking another bun in the oven. Kneading dough, not knocking boots. Shaping a batard instead of shaking my babymaker.

Scoring the loaf is my second-favorite part of the process (next to eating, of course). Double-edged razor blades aren't just for shaving any more! You can even make a poor man's lame by wedging a stir stick in the centre of the blade.

I have made bread the past two weekends (baguettes and cheese bread) and I might keep baking a loaf or two every week. I can never eat enough bread, plus it's fun and cheap. Making babies is also fun, but the end result is not cheap and is certainly time-consuming. Speaking of consuming, I think it's time for a snack...

Nixon at Oxford Union

Nearly thirty-five years after his resigning the presidency in disgrace, Americans are still fascinated by the deeds and enigmatic personality of Richard Nixon (1913-1994).
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His life truly mirrors the rise and fall of a character in a Greek tragedy. Unable to accept scholarships from Harvard and Yale in 1930 due to his family being left impecunious by the throes of the Great Depression, Nixon had to settle for entrance into Whittier College near home. As a result of his efforts at becoming a model student and intrepid debater, he earned a fully-funded scholarship to Duke University Law School. While a law student, he maintained a strict, self-imposed study regimen and refused to date until graduation.
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After joining a law firm in California upon graduation, marrying and serving with distinction in World War II as a Lieutenant Commander in the US Navy, he began a long and controversial political career by winning a US congressional seat in 1946. After only two terms, the up-and-coming politician, who was a key figure in the House of Un-American Activities Committee (HUAC), rose to national prominence for his crusade to root out alleged communist sympathizers in government. On a high tide of American nationalism, Nixon was elected to the US Senate in 1950 and became Vice-President to Dwight Eisenhower from 1953-61.
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In 1960, Nixon narrowly lost the presidential election to Harvard-educated John F. Kennedy. It was his first defeat, and Nixon would remain bitter about the loss for years to come. Notably, his resentment at losing to a family member of the East Coast establishment revealed a deep-seated insecurity about his pedigree. A second failure followed in being defeated in the California gubernatorial campaign of 1962. Facing the press after learning the disappointing result, a frustrated Nixon famously exclaimed, 'This is my last press conference...You won't have Dick Nixon to kick around anymore.' Rather than accept criticism or blame for his own limitations and failures, Nixon was disposed to savaging others for his misfortunes.
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In 1968, Nixon ran for president again, and he won by 6/10ths of a percentage point over Hubert Humphrey. Over the next four years, Nixon made preparations for withdrawal from Vietnam, instituted wage and price controls effectively to control inflation, founded the Environmental Protection Agency, opened relations with Communist China and ushered in detente with the Soviet Union. It was an impressive record of achievement, and the American people rewarded him with a second term in a landslide victory in November 1972. Then, everything, including Nixon, began to unravel.
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A year before his re-election, Nixon directed a select group of individuals ('The Plumbers') to break into the office of Daniel Ellsberg in order to find information that would discredit his reputation. Ellsberg, who worked for the RAND Corporation and participated in a secret study - authorized by previous Secretary of Defense Robert McNamara - assisted in writing a true account of American operations in Vietnam. Subsequently dubbed 'The Pentagon Papers', the manuscript contradicted the official government line that the US was 'winning' in Vietnam and offered a bleak assessment for its endgame. When Ellsberg leaked the contents of the papers to the New York Times out of conscience, the nation was stunned, and the revelation fueled the already shrill campaign of anti-war activists. Had Nixon been lying about the course of the war? Nixon was furious at the leak and ordered retaliation with 'The Plumbers'.
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Although certain to win re-election, Nixon ordered a team from his 'Committee to Re-elect the President' (CREEP) to break into the Democratic National Headquarters in Washington DC to gather information on the campaign strategy of his rival. At the Watergate Complex, the burglars were caught and arrested. Through patient and methodical reporting, reporters Bob Woodward and Carl Bernstein of The Washington Post connected the five men to the White House.
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While calling for an investigation into the matter publicly, Nixon privately asked the FBI suspend further inquiry and had the conspirators bribed to maintain their silence with a considerable amount of 'hush money'. In the end, Congress subpoenaed Nixon's collection of White House audio tapes and launched an impeachment proceeding on the basis of his own incriminating words. Rather than become the first president to be removed from office, Nixon resigned on 9 August 1974. He was later pardoned by President Gerald Ford.
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From his resignation until his death twenty years later in 1994, Nixon is thought by nearly all Americans to have never apologized for his egregious abuses of power. After viewing the recent film Nixon/Frost, the former executive editor of The Washington Post, Ben Bradlee, was irate over the depiction of Nixon uttering apologetic words for his actions to BBC interviewer David Frost. According to Bradlee, Nixon never admitted any wrongdoing. This, however, is not entirely correct.
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In the immediate years after his departure from office, Nixon became bored with private life. As an extroverted introvert, he still craved the limelight despite falling from grace. When Chairman Mao, old, infirm and near death, granted him a visit in February 1976, Nixon was elated. He could bask in his signature foreign policy success and appear on the world stage once again.
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Two years later, Nixon accepted an invitation to visit and speak at the one of the most renowned universities in the world. At Oxford University, Nixon made his way to the Oxford Union. Founded in 1823, it had seen the likes of 19th century Prime Minister William Gladstone, Robert Kennedy, and Malcolm X over its long and distinguished history. Nixon entered the chamber to a packed house, and a large crowd outside could be heard angrily shouting 'No More Nixons!' over and over. After speaking briefly, Nixon entertained questions from a young and somewhat intimidated audience. The entire scene was awkward and a bit uncomfortable. Then, the ice was broken with a jaw-dropping admission from the ex-president. In fielding a Watergate-related question, Nixon inelegantly blurted out, 'I screwed up, and I paid the price.' After a moment of stunned silence, the audience burst into applause at the sudden act of contrition. Nixon, a vain man who had been too proud to confess to any error, seemed a bit surprised by his own statement and flashed a sincere grin at the applause rendered for his roundabout apology.
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Unfortunately, Nixon did not have the character to make a similar admission on American soil. According to the late historian Stephen Ambrose, the American people would have forgiven him if he had made a public apology during his presidency or thereafter, but it was not to be.
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The debate on the character, presidential achievements and conduct of Richard Nixon will continue for years in both academic and non-academic circles. Regardless of his colossal failures as a person and a president, history must note that Richard Nixon managed to take responsibility for his shameful actions for at least one hour before his final day.
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J Roquen

Daddy Drinks: Fuzzy Navel


The Nave of the Santa Maria Del Mar, originally uploaded by doug.mo

When I was a kid, my dad tricked me by offering a sip of his non-alcoholic beer. It gave me a bad first impression of alcohol.  Shame on you, dad, that was a mean trick. I didn't have a proper adult beverage until that fateful day at an "Italian" restaurant in Hirakata City, Japan. Here's the one that started it all, my very first alcoholic drink, a Fuzzy Navel.

The classic recipe includes peach schnapps and orange juice in approximately equal proportions, poured over ice. More juice can be added to taste. As with any cocktail, there are numerous variations. I couldn't even find two recipes alike for the basic drink, during my three minutes of intensive Google research.

As I was drafting this post, I realized that my first Fuzzy Navel was also the only time I had this drink.  So I mixed myself another one.  It was good!  Do you remember your first drink?

Puzzle


interlocking, originally uploaded by paul goyette

They say real men don't read instructions, but I have always been a dutiful instructions-reader. I used to pore over manuals as a young PC gamer, devouring every page before even inserting the 5 1/2" floppy disk into my Commodore 64. When cooking, I always follow the directions very carefully, and make sure to use exactly the right proportions of ingredients.

This weekend I bought a bookcase at Target. It was on sale and it matched the crib. I hauled the box home, dumped out all the parts, and sorted the Styrofoam from the useful bits. Then I l sorted everything again. At which point it became clear that I had everything I needed to build a bookcase except--surprise!--the instructions. I couldn't find instructions online either, but I did find product reviews full of complaints about how difficult it was to assemble.

What I did have was a photo of the finished product from the box, and a few years of furniture-assembly experience. Ultimately, I was too lazy to return it to the store, and so I made a game of it. Like one of those jigsaw puzzles with no border and extra pieces that don't fit anywhere. In the end it only took me a couple of hours to build a very nice-looking bookcase. It turns out that real men really don't need instructions after all.

My New Shaving Technique is Unstoppable

Guys, I totally ditched my electric razor, and I'm using a double-edged blade every day. It was rough going sometimes at first. Cuts were a regular occurrence. But since then I have learned some tricks that helped me immensely. Maybe they will be helpful to you, too, if you're in the same boat.

Here's the new prep technique: I used to shave after my shower, until I got a hot tip that it's better to do it before. Start by whipping up your lather and apply a preliminary layer to your face and neck. You're going to massage this into your skin for a couple of minutes. Next, heat up a towel or clean washcloth and hold it against your skin. Let the steam warm up your face and open up your pores. Now wash off the remaining lather and do your shave as normal.

Did you try it? Awesome, right? Well, it worked for me. I'm sure that the experience I have accrued from daily practice has also helped with the reduction of serious injuries. In any case, the ritual is much more enjoyable now.

The Signal Event Of The 20th Century

When it comes to deciding the most important event of 20th century, historians are certainly not at a loss for possibilities. World War I, the first truly global conflict which resulted the fall of three empires (Russian, Ottoman and Austro-Hungarian) and rise of the United States as the preeminent power, deserves serious consideration. What about the Russian Revolution of 1917? It survived invasions by Germany, Japan and the United States to become a nuclear-powered rival to Washington until 1991. Moreover, it inspired anti-American and anti-capitalist revolutions from Peking to Peru. The rise and fall of Nazi Germany, World War II, the Cold War, the moon landing in 1969 among others all merit places on any short list. The Iranian Revolution of 1979, however, may indeed be the watershed event of the past century due to the complex vicissitudes of its global legacy.
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On 16 January 1979, Mohammad Reza Pahlavi (1919-1980), the Shah of Iran, fled his country in the wake of mass demonstrations against his pro-Western, modernization policies. In the past few decades before his forced exile, the Shah concentrated on attracting American and European capital to transform Persia into a nation-state with a broader social and scientific base conducive to international norms and trade. Deemed the 'White Revolution', Iranian life was changing rapidly. Women, who had been utterly subjugated under a rigid, patriarchal system, were awarded new legal rights and greater access to education. Western notions of sex, style (fashion) and secularism began to penetrate the culture. Moreover, the economy was changing from a workforce of independent craftsmen to one of laborers for foreign enterprises. While many and perhaps most Iranians embraced the changes, a strong and vociferous minority attacked the perceived loss of sovereignty. In their view, the West, particularly the United States, threatened the core Iranian identity with its imperial economic designs and non-religious (separation of church and state) worldview.
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In 1953, a clandestine initiative undertaken by the CIA in Iran emboldened the critics of modernization. Mohammed Mossadeq, who had become Prime Minister two years earlier through a legitimate and constitutional election, moved to nationalize the Anglo-Iranian Oil Company (currently known as British Petroleum or BP) after diplomacy failed to resolve a lingering dispute over profit-sharing. In fact, the British company had enjoyed a preponderance of control and reaped greater financial benefits than its host. In business terms, a move toward nationalization by Tehran was understandable. It was their only leverage in negotiation. Geopolitically, however, the decision was disastrous. Alarm bells immediately went off in London and Washington. Was Iran about to sell its vast quantity of oil to the Soviets? To preclude this possibility, the CIA devised 'Operation Ajax' to secretly overthrow Mossadeq and install a pro-Western leader with help from the British. Unlike many CIA plots, it succeeded. Mossadeq was imprisoned and the prospect of a 'Russian-tilt' was removed. Victory proved costly in the long-term, however, as Iranians became suspicious and embittered to American foreign policy. The Shah became discredited in the eyes of a significant segment of the population as a traitor to Iran and Islam - and regarded as a puppet of Western interests.
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Critics and Clerics, repressed by the secret police (SAVAK) for their dissenting views, risked imprisonment and torture. As SAVAK turned Iran into a police state and resorted to more brutal tactics, opposition groups, particularly ultra-religious organizations advocating theocratic rule, became radicalized. By flying to New York for cancer treatment in October 1979, the exiled Shah seemed to prove the claims of his most ardent detractors. Militant propagandists convinced much of the public that its pro-West 'puppet' had escaped and was being protected by his nefarious sponsor. As a result, outraged students stormed the US embassy in Tehran two weeks later on 4 November and took 52 Americans hostage. Until their release 444 days later, the US and Iran were dangerously on the precipice of war. While Iranians chanted 'Death to America', graffiti, signs and bumper stickers reading 'Nuke Iran' appeared all over America.
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Why should the Iranian Revolution of 1979 be considered as the signal event of the 20th century? Consider a few of its domestic and worldwide consequences over the last three decades:
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1) The presidency of Jimmy Carter was effectively ended due to his inability to secure the release of hostages from a 'Third World' country.
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2) Out of Carter's perceived weakness, conservatives, led by Ronald Reagan, were swept into power with expectations of taking a hard line on both Iran and the Soviet Union. In the ensuing years, Reagan increased the defense budget, built new nuclear missiles and began operational research on an anti-ballistic missile system ('Star Wars'). Simultaneously, Reagan backed anti-communist rebels around the world (i.e. Nicaragua, Afghanistan) to pressure the Soviet Union into negotiations and break their fragile economy. In conservative circles, Reagan is still reputed to have won the Cold War almost single-handedly. The broader American public, largely enchanted by his commitment to freedom and optimism, awarded him a second term by a landslide in 1984. An unexpected era of conservatism in America, in which the Republican Party would control the White House for 20 of the next 28 years, had begun.
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3) The rise of revolutionary Iran, dominated by Shia, antagonized Sunni leader Saddam Hussein of Iraq. In order for his Sunni clique to remain in power amid a pro-Iranian Shia majority, Saddam invaded Iran on 22 September 1980. Seeking to curb Iranian influence and establish a balance of power in the region, the United States backed Saddam with significant sales of arms. After eight long and bloody years and one million dead between the two belligerents, the war ended in a stalemate.
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4) Iran has been instrumental in the development of modern terrorism by financing and equipping radical groups with arms. From the Hezbollah in Lebanon to Hamas in Gaza, Iran is a key sponsor of anti-Israeli and anti-American movements.
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5) Through a business arrangement with Moscow, Iran is currently in the process of constructing a nuclear plant at Bushehr. Although Tehran claims the site is slated to be an alternative energy source, it is likely dedicated to the production of nuclear weapons.
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The entrance of Ayatollah Ruhollah Khomeini (pictured with Carter) into Tehran in 1979 changed the contours of world politics. As the Soviet Union declined and dissolved, Iran superseded Moscow as the primary existential threat to the US, and the triumph of radical Islamic militants in Persia sent shock waves around the world and emboldened a new generation of extremists and anti-modernists to roll back the influence and progress of the Western world.
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Neither the Iranian Revolution nor its legacy have ended. As a considerable number of foreign policy decisions in Washington, London, Berlin and Moscow now revolve around Tehran, the overthrow of the Shah in 1979 may indeed be the signal event of the 21st century as well.
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J Roquen

Ashley is a Headbanger


Sing-along time!
Can't stop stop that girl
there she goes again
I really really love
To watch her watch her headbangin'
Suzy is a headbanger
Her mother is a geek
Do it one more time for me
Ooo-ooo-whee!
Our baby has learned the trick of shaking and nodding her head. The head-shaking is cute (as opposed to the full-body thrashing when she's actually saying "no" to something), but she nods with a special kind of ferocity, so that it looks like she's going to rock her noggin right off her little neck.

Obviously, I find this terribly endearing. Truly another sign that she is her father's daughter.

Prayer


Enlightened, originally uploaded by Lawrence OP

Just before Ashley was born and my life got flipped turned upside down, I wrote about making time for our priorities. That post was about playing video games, and in the meantime I've allowed my gaming time to gradually dwindle away. It turns out they're not so important to me after all.

On the other hand, in November I was lamenting my lack of time to simply think. Obviously, it wasn't going to happen during the day when I have a job and a wife and a baby to take care of. It was clear that I would need to carve out a few minutes in my schedule for contemplation.

And so I devoted myself to daily prayer and meditation, first thing in the morning. It's part of my routine, right after taking the dog outside (which can only be postponed at my peril), and just before the morning shave. What an excellent way to start the day!

Resolved


Junk Shop Gem, originally uploaded by Wickedlady

Get Rid of 2009 Things in 2009. That's my family's joint resolution this year. I don't think we own a crazy amount of stuff. Still, I'd wager we can find a couple thousand things that we don't need any more, just taking up space in our house.

It was my wife's idea. Obviously, I was immediately on board with the whole thing. Of course throwing things away (or donating or gifting them) is only half of the clutter equation. it does no good to toss two thousand things out of our house, if we turn around and put in four thousand new things.

To get a true concept of what's going out, we also need to track everything coming in. A balance sheet for the home, if you will. I don't know if we'll take the record-keeping to that level, but we will make a list of the outgoing stuff. I'll post an update later.